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FRAMEWORK FOR SELF-TRANSFORMATION

The framework we use is a blend of modern Stoicism and powerful methods from psychotherapy. A modern Stoic path needs to preserve the elements from the tradition that still work well, while remedying its limitations. Here we outline the elements of the path that work well, we identify some of its major flaws, and we explain the main features of a modern, integral framework for healing and self-transformation.


Main Elements of the Path

For starters, it is essential to always keep in mind that this path is an actual way of life, whose overarching aim is living well. The primary compass is: we are seeking to lead better lives, we are aiming for a “good life,” which, in reality, is a universal aspiration.

The central question then becomes: how exactly do we live well? To answer this question, Stoicism offers two very common-sense observations that serve as the framework for the entire path. The first insight is that if living is our universal condition, and we seek to have a “good life” then what we must practice is necessarily …the art of living, in both theory and practice. And the better we become at this art, the better our whole lives will be. And incidentally, in antiquity, the name for this noble art was precisely … Philosophy.

So the first foundation of Stoicism is: cultivating the art of living well. And the corresponding practice, and tenet, is: Live Virtuously - namely practice living well. Or to put this in plain, universal language: be a good person, and keep practicing the art of becoming a better person … because this is precisely what leads, and corresponds, to the “good life.”

And how do we do this? By practicing the various disciplines of the path and by cultivating the Virtues, or the qualities of human goodness or excellence. The Stoics believed, as in fact did virtually all the ancient philosophers (whether Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, or Diogenes), that if you cultivate the overall qualities of human excellence, then you will gradually, but surely, live a good or excellent life - and they were right, of course. And these qualities were the famous Virtues: courage, compassion, temperance, mindfulness, humility, justice, and the crowning jewel of them all … Wisdom.

Stoicism then offers another common-sense observation that constitutes the second pillar of the whole path. Namely all human beings live in three primary spheres: the personal, the interpersonal and the universal. In other words, simply by virtue of being alive, all of us exist within Self, Community or Society, and World-at-large - what we call the Three Spheres. This is not just common sense, it is simply a universal feature of living, or, if you will, a law of Life.

The Stoics identify, and name, the Three Spheres as overall realms of the path (and consequently areas of practice): the realm of the personal is Logic; the realm of the interpersonal is Ethics; and the realm of the World-at-large is Physics (what the ancients referred to as “Phusis”).

 
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If we seek to live “the Good Life” the question then becomes: how exactly do we live well, or in harmony, within the Three Spheres? And the Stoics are as clear and logical as can be: we cultivate well-being, or harmony, precisely by practicing the art of living - the 1st foundation - in the realms of Logic, Ethics, and Physics.

In other words, we diligently practice the disciplines and the Virtues of the path, so that we learn to transform our difficulties and live better lives, in relationship to our own selves, our social relations, and the universal dimension of existence.

In conclusion, our approach to living well, and the whole path, must necessarily be an integral or holistic one, precisely because we are - by natural design - holistic beings.

The whole framework of Stoicism can therefore be summed up in two core tenets:

  1. Live virtuously - Practice the art of living well

  2. Live in harmony with all of Life - Practice living well in Self, Society & World

The entire path is succinctly captured in these two simple yet profound principles, and all of the practices of Stoicism naturally flow from there.

Limitations of the Traditional Path

Now as powerful as Stoicism was, like all philosophies it did have some flaws and limitations.

And here, it’s important to realise that, over the centuries, we have lost 99% of the primary sources. So our critical assessment corresponds to what is left, and what we can piece together of the original path, which despite these great losses is still more significant than we would imagine.

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It’s also important to remember that when Stoicism developed the ancients did not have all of the modern knowledge, and sensibility, that we have today. So most the following “critiques” cannot, in real fairness, all be attributed to the original philosophers who developed the path. This would be a form of ahistorical and revisionist appraisal, that neglects the reality that Stoicism developed in a particular time in the past (when certain social, cultural, historical conditions prevailed). In reality, all philosophies, and religions, in the world have real limitations, due to the times, and conditions, when they were developed. And Stoicism, however we might admire it, was not immune from these Forces.

Finally, it’s essential to get a solid understanding of the biases and limitations of Stoicism, in order to have a more realistic view of what the tradition can presently offer us, and precisely in order to remedy these weaknesses (via modernisation). The primary shortcomings of the path are as follows:

The excessive focus, and over-reliance, on the cognitive-rational mind, as the seat of practically all self-agency, power and transformational ability. A corresponding hyperrationalist, and partially out-dated, approach to self-transformation. There is an idealistic, and unrealistic, perception that reason alone can lead to the surmounting of all sufferings and to self-transformation (and this bias reverberates not just in Stoicism, but through all of ancient Greek philosophy). As powerful as reason can be, modern psychology, and the psychotherapeutic process, has amply shown that, in many ways, and for a number of reasons, our cognitive-rational faculties are hardly sufficient for healing and selftransformation. To put it plainly: simply cultivating the mind will not transform you enough and heal you in full, for many types of human ailments, indeed for most.

A corresponding, and excessive, focus on the cognitive-rational mind for most of the disciplines and therapeutics of the path.

A simplistic and unwise treatment of the stronger, “darker” emotions (anger, fear, grief, sadness or depression). This often results in a corresponding, and often unconscious, banishment, denial, or repression, of the more difficult and “dark” emotions. And here this is the age-old, common critique of Stoicism, as a philosophy that represses emotions, and why we get the popular, modern version of the word “stoic.” This is still a major flaw of the path, especially as it pertains to the darker emotions (which the ancient Stoics explicitly condemned or looked down upon).

The neglect of the power of detrimental psychological conditionings (as opposed to mental conditionings), and the crucial need to address these, so that we can properly transform our emotional sufferings, heal and develop greater well-being.

A dogmatic and outright denial of external factors, and their power to impact our lives. For ancient Stoics, all externals, or elements outside of our inner selves, (such as familial and communal relations, poverty, class, health, work conditions etc.) were classified as the “indifferents,” and were considered fundamentally irrelevant to our well-being. This doctrine, if closely followed, leads to yet more anxiety and sufferings for people, as it is plainly very excessive and incomplete, or simply not true to life. Anyone who has worked, on the front lines, with the general population - such as social workers, doctors, therapists - knows first-hand just how powerful, and detrimental, external factors can be in a person’s life. If we seek to help people heal and transform, we must necessarily address external factors because they obviously matter enormously (whether it is family relations, social conditions, work environment, the quality of the natural environment). And they matter not only in their detrimental dimension - which we seek to transform - but also, conversely, in their medicinal or healing dimension (many people need to cultivate better external conditions precisely to improve or expand their well-being).

A pronounced masculine bias to the whole tradition, and a corresponding excessive focus on the masculine dimension, and qualities, of existence - due to the very patriarchal environment in which Stoicism was originally developed (and in fairness, of course, all the great philosophies and religions of the world suffer from this historical bias). The whole path is skewed, in subtle and not-so-subtle ways, by the fact that it was developed by men and for men. This is of course an important limitation of the path, for both women and men, because it leads to a real neglect of the feminine qualities (present in both genders), qualities precisely needed for fuller self-transformation and well-being. And it fails, almost entirely, to properly address important existential elements specific to women’s lives. Furthermore, the strong masculine bias of Stoicism is also quite problematic in our modern social context where social, economic and political power is still, thousands of years later, greatly imbalanced between women and men (even though real progress has been made in a number of countries these last 50 years). Since the path of Stoicism is firmly committed to the cardinal virtue of Justice (among other noble virtues) the masculine bias of the path is obviously in real need of improvement.

As a result of the preceding factors, an insufficiently holistic approach to self-development and well-being. And this is especially evident in the overwhelming emphasis on the cognitive-rational dimension (particularly striking in the field of Logic), and the corresponding neglect of the other dimensions (the heart, the feminine, the externals).


Modernisation of the Path

How can we modernise Stoicism so that it can better serve us on our journey of self transformation?

Its limitations, outlined above, paint a fairly clear picture of what actually needs to be remedied.

In a nutshell, the path needs to expand on its original, and brilliant, insight that since we are integral or holistic beings, we need to cultivate our integral well-being. This is true to life and very wise. And Stoicism clearly has the right overall dimensions for holistic practice, namely the Three Spheres (Personal, Interpersonal and Universal). However its greatest strength (the cognitive-rational mind) also happens to be its greatest weakness, namely: there is a clear over-reliance, and bias, towards the cognitive-rational mind - to the detriment of other essential human dimensions (the body, the heart, the feminine, external and social conditions).

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So Stoicism is definitely an integral path for self-transformation - an incredibly modern contribution on its part - but it is an imbalanced and insufficiently developed one. The modernisation of the path thus requires more “holism” or integral development, so that more attention, balance and care are applied to all the dimensions of the human condition.

And, concretely speaking, how can we make Stoicism more integral and balanced?

Precisely by integrating into the philosophical-therapeutic work the dimensions neglected, or underdeveloped, by traditional Stoicism. And this modern and higher integration necessarily also implies a re-balancing to tone down the over-emphasis on the cognitive-rational mind; because, in fact, we precisely cannot solve all our existential problems solely via this route - indeed the exclusive focus on the cognitive-rational becomes its own existential problem. A modern version of the path must therefore more fully address the following human dimensions:

The body, and its proper cultivation (beyond the contributions of the old path).

The heart or feelings (and especially the wise treatment of the “darker” emotions, and detrimental psychological conditionings).

The higher Logos or Integral Mind, as opposed to just the cognitive-rational mind.

The feminine energies and virtues (in women and men), and the power imbalance between genders in familial, social-cultural and political relations.

The realm of the externals: family and relational environment, cultural conditionings and forces, work conditions, socio-economic setting, environmental conditions etc.

All of these elements are an integral part of people’s lives - their difficulties, aspirations, well-being - and therefore all of them need to be carefully considered, and integrated, in the therapeutic process of a modern Stoic path.

And this is precisely where the psychotherapeutic process of modern psychology serves as such a powerful complement to the ancient tradition. Indeed, the methods and tools of psychotherapy precisely allow us to address the neglected, or underdeveloped, dimensions of traditional Stoicism: the general realm of feelings, re-balancing the cognitive over-emphasis, the importance of the feminine qualities of existence (for both men and women), working with “external” factors … And this is especially true of the field of holistic, depth psychotherapy - our chosen approach - precisely because it looks at human transformation and healing from an integral perspective, taking into account the main quadrants of human existence (the personal and the social; and the inner and the external dimensions).


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